When is it Time for Extra Care? Understanding the Signs and Starting the Conversation

We all want to stay independent for as long as possible. But sometimes, whether for ourselves or someone we love, we must recognise when it’s time to ask for a helping hand. At Catholic Homes, we see this journey every day, and we’re here to help you navigate it with compassion and understanding.

Let’s Talk About Getting Older

First things first: aging doesn’t happen to “other people.” It’s part of everyone’s story, as natural as the seasons changing. Our bodies and minds shift and adapt as we age, and that’s perfectly normal. Sometimes, we might not move as quickly as we used to or develop ongoing health conditions that need attention. And it’s not just about physical changes – our emotional well-being matters just as much.

Spotting the Signs That It’s Time for Support at Home

Sometimes, the signs that we need help can be subtle. Here’s what to look out for:

Loss of Mobility and Physical Independence

As we age, small changes in mobility are often the first signs that extra support may be needed. Everyday tasks that were once simple, like buttoning a shirt, cooking a meal, or moving around the house, may start to feel more difficult or tiring. You might notice a loved one has stopped keeping the house as tidy as usual or is skipping personal grooming routines. These changes, while subtle, can signal the beginning of a shift in care needs.

Cognitive and Decision-Making Changes

Occasional forgetfulness is normal, but increased confusion, misplaced items, or difficulty making simple decisions could indicate something more. If these changes become more frequent, it’s worth having a chat with a GP. Identifying cognitive changes early can help you access the right support sooner and maintain independence longer.

Growing Reliance on Others

Calling on family and friends for help more often, whether it’s for shopping, housework, or appointments, might suggest that additional support is needed. It can be tough to admit, but recognising this growing reliance is an important step toward ensuring safety and quality of life.

Changes in Social Engagement

Social withdrawal can also be a sign that someone is struggling. If a loved one begins turning down invitations, stops attending community events, or seems disinterested in keeping in touch, it could be due to mobility, confidence, or energy difficulties. Staying socially connected is vital for emotional and mental well-being.

Starting the Conversation

If you’ve noticed these changes in someone you love, having that first conversation about care needs can feel daunting. Here’s how to approach it with sensitivity:

Choose the right moment – perhaps over a quiet cup of tea when you’re both relaxed. Lead with love and concern, not criticism. Try something like, “Mum, I’ve been thinking about how we can make things a bit easier for you”, rather than pointing out what’s going wrong.

Remember to listen more than you speak. Your loved one might have already been thinking about these changes and might have their own ideas about what could help.

Finding the Right Aged Care Support

Here in Perth, we’re blessed with excellent care options. At Catholic Homes, we offer several ways to support you or your loved one:

Home Care Packages
We can provide support if you’d prefer to stay in your own home. From help with shopping to personal care and nursing services, we’ll tailor our support to your needs.

Independent Living Villages
If you’re still active but looking for a more manageable lifestyle, our Independent Living Villages offer the perfect balance — freedom, community, and peace of mind, with support close by if needed.

Residential Care
For those needing round-the-clock support, our residential homes offer more than
care – they provide a warm, welcoming community where every person is valued and respected.

Community Programs
Sometimes, a little social connection makes all the difference. Our community programs offer chances to meet new friends, enjoy activities, and stay connected with others.

Making Your Decision

Take time to consider what matters most to you or your loved one. Consider current and future needs, location, cultural preferences, and the kind of lifestyle you want to maintain.

We understand that cost is an important factor, and we’re here to help you understand the financial side of things, including government support options.

We’re Here to Help

Remember, you’re not walking this path alone. Whether you’re just starting to think about care options or ready to take the next step, we at Catholic Homes are here to support you. We can help you navigate MyAgedCare, understand your options, and find the right fit for you or your loved one.

Every person’s journey is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. What matters most is making informed decisions that support dignity, well-being, and quality of life.

Want to learn more? We’re always here for a chat. Let us help you take the next step in your care journey with confidence and peace of mind.